Are you grownup yet?

Many adults are not yet grownup even they look like that. You might think that you are a grownup while you are really not!
How to test that? and how to be sure about it? Well, many funny answers might come to your mind but believe me I don't mean to be funny. Let me make it this way... I'll ask questions in two ways and you will understand what I'm trying to do.

Group 1:
- Are you a grownup because you do not cry?
- Are you a grownup because you look tough?
- Are you a grownup because you've a girlfriend?
- Are you a grownup because you're serious all the time?
- Are you a grownup because you're a father?!
- Are you a grownup because of your white hair?
- Are you a grownup because your friends are strong grownup?
- Are you a grownup because you've a job?

Group 2:
- You cry, are you a grownup?
- You look weak& lonely, are you a grownup?
- You are joking all the time, are you a grownup?
- You've no kids, are you a grownup?
- You look young, are you a grownup?
- Your friends are poor& weak, are you a grownup?
- You've no job, are you a grown up?

I guess you understand my point. There's nothing says you are a grownup and there is no such an easy test to know it... Only life experience may show it a little bit... Still you might be a grownup in some situations but not in all situations. There are many puppets all around never been tested and they lived their life thinking by the way their master dictating' em. They might look tough, old and serious but in fact they are so fragile. My advice to all puppets, be so careful and do not underestimate the others because your master do that.